decisions….decisions…
When thoughts come to mind about decision making how do you act? You have a couple of options:
A: “Fo’get ‘bout it”
We can ponder and ponder and make these decisions in our head. Then we play them out and weigh out the pros and cons of the outcomes. Is it really worth taking the risk? Or we think..I know how I’ll feel, but how will the other? We can never prepare ourselves for another person’s reaction In fear of what may happen or in doubt of a positive outcome, we forget about it.
B: Act on it
We’ve decided to go with the decisions played out in our heads. All out. Ballsy. No guts, no glory. Goin’ with the gut. Going off of pure instinct. Not knowing what may happen, we prepare ourselves for whatever outcome may happen. What if we made all of our decisions based off of pure instinct. Would things be easier? Would we have less stress because we would be free of worry? OR would more stress be brought upon us in dealing with the consequences of our decisions?
C: Limbo
This what most of us do. Its similar to forgetting about. But,only in this case, we keep thinking about. We dwell, ponder, question it but we never act upon it. We’re in limbo. We are faced to keep asking ourselves “What if?” And as much as the question bugs us, we all know that somewhere in the back of our minds we already know that answer. We don’t know nor will we ever. The problem is that as people, that’s not good enough for us. We want an answer yet we won’t allow it to happen. So we just sit there and wait. Maybe the other party will decide for us. Who knows? So we wait…and wait…and wait…
Again, not sure where I was going with this. But if this blog is supposed to be about what’s going on in this ole noggin of mine….well there you go! Yes im pretty random.
btw: This rant was not done during a poop session. :oT
